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Master, so that the other person gets the full benefit of whatever I am trying to do. While transmitting if we think on our own that the Master is seated in our hearts, therefore, the whole thing is going on, what happens is, finally we start thinking that we are the Master. A fallacy which I do not like to get into.
These are the two things that I practice which if you feel is wrong, you are welcome to say how it is wrong. So far as I know, it is not what Babuji Maharaj said, but I know this is practiced by certain other people also in the system. Some elders have followed this and I have also copied it. This helps us, helps me at least to maintain my humility under all circumstances.
Secondly, since we always try to have that humble posture before the divine, so we have to see we have our asana, a fixed asana, a fixed seat. Do not try to use other man’s seat. It does not help you. It harms him first. Then next time when he sits on that seat, he would feel miserable because your vibrations are different from his vibrations. The seat should not be shared in your own house also. You should have a seat and your wife another. Do not try to have the asana shared. It will not help you. Perhaps it harms you.
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