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Every saint has been asking it does not matter much to give it up, give up your position, let the other person take it and every person who is other than saintly has questioned it. That is why in tradition, the transition from 3rd Knot to 4th Knot is an impossibility always, without developing this particular quality of giving up. This buffer is the toughest.
Actually, when we take the condition, unacceptence of the superiority of a guru bhai, and demanding equality of status. This is the problem that comes in this condition. We have gone to Babuji Maharaj. Some people have been more serious about sadhana, some people are less serious, some people were not prepared for it but all of them were only guru bhais. This person who has not done sadhana, does not want to accept somebody who has done sadhana as somebody who is more advanced and he is not prepared to learn from him and though the Master may say ‘here is some one who knows, you tell him’, he will come to Master, he will not go to him. Still Babuji says, ‘no you go to him only’, he will not go to him, he will go home. That actally is the swabhimanamu that we are talking about here
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