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produce. He has to consult regarding the amount of share.
vii) If he can afford to do pilgrimage, he has to do it with out fail.
viii) He has to take care of his wife and children, tell them about the rules of dharma. The easiest way is to read out and explain books, from the beginning to the end, by sparing some time during the day or night and repeat again and again till they get them by heart. If the person is uneducated, he has to learn from a Pandit and tell them to his family members.
The following things are prohibited.
i) Clothes with zari border of more than 4 fingers should not be used for himself and also for his children,
ii) gold ring of more than 4 masa,
iii) mail dress and high heel shoes or small or thin clothes which expose the body for ladies, the dhoti or pajama not below the feet so that drops of urine may not fall on them
iv) or wearing the dhoti with a possibility of exposing the body,
v) seeing any male or female with an evil eye,
vi) mixing freely with ladies and boys,
vii) Staying of a male alone with a lady or other person’s wife in the house,
viii) Or moving of a lady with another person with out necessity even if he is a guru or a relative.
ix) Unnecessarily opening head, side, wrist, and throat is not good.
x) Lady moving freely with males wearing good clothes and jewelry is very bad.
xi) Males and females have to leave the habit of laughing and talking in excess.
xii) As for as possible any work done for exhibitionism has to be avoided, like lavish party in marriage functions.
xiii) Exchanging money etc. have to be reduced.
xiv) Should avoid such unnecessary expenditure or observing formalities regarding the clothes as a matter of pride and showiness.
xv) Should avoid weeping loudly over the dead body or while performing 10th, 20thday etc.