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give something very good in your sadhana, they should be motivated by your behaviour to follow you. The mere fact that they are not following you shows that there is something wrong with you”. This applies to all abhyasis and they have to evaluate their people at home on this, instead of trying to fight with the husband or wife not following the system it is better you practice it in such a way that they accept it. There is no point in trying to compel them to do it. They may do it because of physical pressure or psychological needs, anybody can do this but, it does not help in any way. Such type of a conversion is of no use. But, if your behaviour is such, if your very presence can bring certain amount of calmness and quietitude to them, then they automatically understand that there is something different. He is a different man. It may take a long time, but definitely that is a very solid transformation, instead of compelling a person to follow the system. So, the role of abhyasi also shall be to see that the Master’s message is propagated by his behaviour, not just trying to say that I am saved, you also get saved. Then the Christian Missionary or Muslim Missionary or many missionaries are there, who just go on trying to get just salvation. It is true, I feel it is true, unless we are going to accept Babuji Maharaj, the question of Realisation or
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